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Effects of Childhood Neglect on Adults
Childhood is a formative time when emotional experiences shape how we understand the world, relationships, and ourselves. While much attention is given to overt forms of abuse, childhood emotional neglect (CEN) can be equally damaging. Unlike physical or emotional abuse, emotional neglect is often invisible and difficult to identify because it involves the absence of necessary emotional nurturing and validation rather than the presence of harmful actions.
Adults who experienced emotional neglect as children may struggle with unresolved emotional issues, even if they don’t fully understand where those feelings come from. This blog will explore the impact of childhood emotional neglect on adults, how to recognize the signs, and steps toward healing and recovery.
What Is Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN)?
Neglect during childhood refers to the omission of adequate emotional care during the child’s developmental years. These years are impressionable and lay the foundation for all emotional growth to follow. This emotional neglect during childhood can have an adverse impact on the adult in the following ways:
- Struggle to express emotions: difficulty emotionally connecting to others and/or expressing emotions to others.
- Self-Worth: struggles with confidence and often feels incapable. Despite high achievements, the individual often feels unworthy.
- Fear of Intimacy: leads to avoidant attachment style, fear of and staying away from forming intimate relationships, thus isolating self.
- Boundary Issues: difficulty saying no to others; often longs to please others and ignores their own wants and needs.
- Distrustful of Others: struggle to rely on others because they fear that their needs will again be overlooked.
Signs of Childhood Emotional Neglect in an Adult
- Emotionally numb
- Difficulty identifying emotions.
- Refrain from relying on others due to fear of disappointment.
- Poor self-worth
- Struggle establishing boundaries and place other’s needs before your own
- Struggle to form intimate relationships
Healing from Childhood Emotional Neglect
- Validate your Feelings: acknowledging your emotional needs is an essential component within the healing process. This step is vital because it lends itself to the belief that is often manifested, that your feelings are irrelevant.
- Emotional Awareness: emotional neglect often leads to stunted emotional growth, therefore, making a habit of identifying your feelings can help to mature in this area. Make it routine to check-in with your emotions and journaling and seeking therapy can be a great approach for emotional awareness.
- Prioritize Self-Care: those who aim to please others and avoid their own wants and needs would benefit from prioritizing self-care.
- Seek Therapy: professional therapy can be an asset to individuals that endured emotional neglect during childhood. It can help to explore and process from your trauma.
- Build Trust: begin to form relationships with others. Building emotional intimacy takes patience, but slowly working toward this goal will ease you into fulfilling relationships.
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